... We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly. We grow partially. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present, and future mingle and pull us backward, forward, or fix us in the present. We are made up of layers, cells, constellations - Anais NinFrom the website www.anaisnin.com and a blog devoted to this writer:
Noted for her journals, she was also apparently the first prominent erotica author in Europe.On Wikipedia other quotes from Anais Nin included
- "Life shrinks or expands in proportion to one's courage."
- "This diary is my kief, hashish, and opium pipe. This is my drug and my vice."
- "...for no one has ever loved an adventurous woman as they have loved adventurous men."
- "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom."
- "I do not want to be the leader. I refuse to be the leader. I want to live darkly and richly in my femaleness. I want a man lying over me, always over me. His will, his pleasure, his desire, his life, his work, his sexuality the touchstone, the command, my pivot. I don’t mind working, holding my ground intellectually, artistically; but as a woman, oh, God, as a woman I want to be dominated. I don’t mind being told to stand on my own feet, not to cling, be all that I am capable of doing, but I am going to be pursued, fucked, possessed by the will of a male at his time, his bidding."
- "How wrong is it for women to expect the man to build the world she wants, rather than set out to create it herself."
- "I postpone death by living, by suffering, by error, by risking, by giving, by losing."
- "Each friend represents a world in us, a world not possibly born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born."
- "I am an excitable person who only understands life lyrically, musically, in whom feelings are much stronger as reason. I am so thirsty for the marvelous that only the marvelous has power over me. Anything I cannot transform into something marvelous, I let go. Reality doesn't impress me. I only believe in intoxication, in ecstasy, and when ordinary life shackles me, I escape, one way or another. No more walls."
- "Something is always born of excess: great art was born of great terror, great loneliness, great inhibitions, instabilities, and it always balances them."
- "Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of withering, of tarnishing."
- "Dreams are necessary to life."
- "We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are."
- "People living deeply have no fear of death."
I'm going to have to read her biography.
2 comments:
Since your blog is often about the differences between men and women, I had to laugh upon reading 'Noted for her journals, she was also apparently the first prominent erotica author in Europe.'
That, right there, is how one could tell you're a woman. Any man would most certainly say she was noted for her erotica, ... and we get bonus points for even knowing she wrote anything besides that. ;-)
(As an aside, she was also with Henry Miller of "Tropic of Cancer" fame. Really interesting woman. But certainly best known by men for the erotica. I have numerous funny stories about how one of her books caused quite a bit of trouble at a party once.)
u... her quotes speak such truth.
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